Deposits

All in-person sessions require a minimum $200 deposit, and those new to serving Me are required to make a 50% non-refundable deposit, at time of booking.

Virtual sessions must be paid in full 48 hours prior to session.

Booking a Session

Anyone looking to book with Me for the first time is required to complete an application and go through My vetting process. There are no exceptions, and attempting to get out of either will result in immediate termination of communication.

References

At least one professional, verifiable reference is required to book with me. Provide their contact information, social media accounts, and when you served them. Make sure to contact them, letting them know I will be reaching out, and perhaps to refresh their memories of you.

Screening Process

If you are new to Me and do not have professional references, you are required to email me a clear picture of you holding your driver's license next to your face - you may censor out any information that is not your picture and name. If this is not an option for you, you may send a link to an employer, personal website, and social media, in lieu of providing references or ID.

I will not respond to your application if you do not follow up with something for My screening process.

Thank you for supporting My efforts to keep both of us safe.

Cancellation Policy

Sessions cancelled within 48 hours can be rescheduled with an additional $200 deposit.

All changes to My schedule require minimum 48 hours notice.

Availability

I prefer daytime play, and am generally available in San Diego, Monday through Friday, 11:00am - 6:00pm. I have been known to make exceptions for My extra special submissives, and applications that are particularly intriguing to Me. Sending a gift may also work in your favor.

Locations and Outcalls

There are a few different spaces I use in San Diego, with the primary space being in Mission Valley. Details of the locations will be shared with you once your session is booked.

I also accommodate outcall sessions to 4+star establishments in the greater San Diego area at My discretion, for a $200 fee, that will be booked by Me. If we have not sessioned before, and I have never met you, we will need to meet for a compensated coffee meeting before booking an outcall.

Boundaries and Limits

All sessions are entirely legal and ultimately up to My discretion. Requests for anything illegal, for penetrative sex, cunnilingus, or anything in the list below will result in your application being denied, and you will be ignored.

My Limits:

• Anything ending in ‘“job”

• Anything directly sexual, unsafe, non-consensual, or illegal

• Full Toilet

• Fantasy wrestling

• Most medical play

• Race Play

• Worship/contact with My bare breasts or genitals

• Switching/subbing

• Abuse/Trauma Reenactments

I am also not a Domme who likes to raise her voice. If you are looking for a Domme to yell and scream at you, I don’t believe My style will resonate with you.

Pre Session Considerations

Fill out the application with care, and purpose. I am extremely selective with who I accept into My world, and this will be your opportunity to make a good first impression. Trust me when I say I reject and ignore most applications, and often it’s because of how lazily they are written. Receiving a deep, well thought out, and articulate application never fails to get Me interested.

I prefer submissives who conduct themselves respectfully when engaging with me - referring to Me by either Mistress, or Miss in emails, texts, or phone calls. Starting an email “Hey Mistress” will earn you bad points. Don’t talk to Me to way you talk to your brother or your friend. The more more respectful you are towards Me, the more interested I will be in playing with you.

Mistress Simone Justice has an excellent article on how to behave in the presence of a Pro Domme. I send this out to all My new subs, and recommend they read it before our time together.

If you have a question that is not answered here, you may email Me at MistressDida@mistressdidafox.com.